Wednesday, December 22, 2010
Merry Christmas and Happy Holidays.
I usually feel a little melancholy before the holidays but this year I am just too darn busy. Having Lily certainly keeps me living in the moment. Life is full, full of all good things to do with her and her well being. This week I have been rocking her to sleep as her teeth are still causing a lot of pain. I am thoroughly loving these moments of watching my angel fall into a blissful sleep. Sometimes it is still very surreal for me. She is growing fast and now a toddler, not the wee mouse that I carried in the sling all curled up like she was still in the womb.
I know soon she will be talking up a storm and that will be a really fun time but for now, I just want to savour all she is today including the fact that she won't let me put her down when we come home from daycare (unless it is to go into her highchair). I won't lie, my body hurts a little and I am a bit lopsided. But I love how she needs me and has bonded with me.
I am feeling pretty lucky and blessed tonight. I have so much but if I could ask for one thing from Santa it would be to have two extra hours in the day. One for just me and one to enable me to pick up Lily early every day from daycare.
Thursday, December 16, 2010
Sponge Bath
Tonight as I was putting on her PJs for bed she kept hitting her front teeth with her pointer finger and making noises of total discomfort. I can only imagine how much pain it is to cut three molars. I love that she is trying to communicate her pain to me.
At daycare today they think she was saying Agua. A couple other kids use the term so it is said often. Another milestone is that Lily is finally using some sign language to say "more". We have been tyring to get that one down so hopefully one day she will turn the volume down when she wants more food.
This is a picture that a friend's neice took of us at a recent Christmas show. It was later in the afternoon and Miss L was just exhausted.
Tuesday, December 14, 2010
No Bath
So, I am shooting this question out to followers on my blog. Do you think there is a correlation between the bath and her cutting 3 molars. The timing sure would fit. Maybe a little vulnerable in a bathtub of water?
Help?
Monday, December 13, 2010
A New Discovery
Wednesday, December 8, 2010
Three Coins in a Fountain
It all started yesterday morning. My life was at a pivotal point tipping in many directions. I bundle my sweet baby up in her thick winter suit all the while she is screaming out as if I was torturing her. Finally, and now I am all hot and bothered I get out the door and start to walk towards my car with Lily, two lunch bags, her backpack and my sling bag (will someone please design something to make our Cnd winters easier with babies?).
It is only when I get in the driver's seat that I can breathe a sigh of relaxation. Lily also fights me now when I put her in the car seat because with all of her fleece and woolly winter clothing plus her blanky, it would be kinda like stuffing a body (maybe mine) into jeans from the 70's.
We are driving east bound on Dupont street going slow as molasses because they have created a bike lane and now we have cars lined up idling for 10-15 min on the one lane. It is not until you past Lansdowne that you have two lanes to choose from. I have been sick, as Lily with this terrible congestion, cough in the throat and as I approach Dupont I have a huge cough only to cough up the crap that has been in my throat for the past week. With no Kleenex near by I decide to do the only lady like thing and open my door and spit. (yes the light is red by now). I made sure I was in the other driver's blind spot to hide my face in shame. Well, there, right in front of me, on the road, are three coins. A toonie, a loonie and a quarter.
So without further adieu I continue to embarrass myself by reaching down and picking up the toonie and the loonie. Sadly, the quarter was further from my reach.
Light turns green. I buckle up and forward but now I am elated. I am not frustrated at winter. I am singing the happy lucky song to Lily. I am thinking my life is about to change for the better. I am attracting money and it is going to flow easily into my life. I really could have been in front of the Trevi Fountain in Rome....that is just how lucky I felt.
So today I am still on a bit of a high and it was only $3.00. But this is what happens to me. Suddenly money comes waltzing into my life when I least expect it to. And you watch as I will report back on my blog and let you know what unexpected cash flow comes to me over the next couple weeks.
Thursday, December 2, 2010
December
Update on Kitchen: we finally have all the upper cabinets in place. Had to return the door fronts on the lowers because they did not match the original cabinets I had from a couple years ago. So waiting for those door fronts to come in and then almost done. The exhaust hood fan will wait till 2011 as will the countertop.
Monday, November 22, 2010
Do nothing, Be happy!
Lily has had this chest thing for over a week now. It has not really been slowing her down at all but you can hear the rattle in her chest when she breathes. It was this weekend that made me realize enough is enough and I need to get her into seeing her doctor. Not so much because there was a huge change with her, although she was more clinging to me but she vomited on Saturday I think due to congestion and a gourmet grilled cheese we had at a friend's house earlier that day. And to top it off I started feeling unwell Friday evening. I had to cancel all plans because as I found out on Saturday, even driving in the car was too much for me and my head.
I take all this in stride and that it is a clear message I am to do nothing except "be". Be with Lily playing, cuddling, watching favorites on Treehouse and eating lots of fruit. So that is what I did but it was not without resistance as I looked around my house and new that I still needed to paint, organize the office, clean the porch, rake the leaves, organize the new kitchen cupboards that Erik assembled...see that is the list that never ends and it is my own nightmare.
So, facing a new week I shall be taking Lily to the doctors first thing on Monday, I have also vowed to finish existing house projects over the next two weeks and not take on anything new until mid January. We all need a break and some time to do nothing but sit and play.
Friday, November 19, 2010
Anniversary of Referral
I had a phone call from D and as soon as I heard her voice I knew it needed to brace myself. She spoke for what seemed to be forever and then suddenly she asked if I was near a computer as she was sending me an email with 4 photos. I couldn't type for the life of me but finally made my way and plugged in my password to find an email. With great anticipation and excitement I clicked on the email to see this photo of Lily My Yen:
I was overjoyed and loved her face immediately, her eyes, lips, wee hands, all the hair and of course how could I not noticed the horizontal stripes in orange. She was my wee pumpkin for sure. Then I scrolled further down to find three more photos. Some with a loving nou nou holding her and then another that had my giggling ...and you will see why.
Wednesday, November 10, 2010
Settling in to Daycare
Suggestions are welcomed here on my site. How do we get her to sleep??
For the most part though she is doing so well. Yesterday I was told she may have said the word "Up" and some form of the word "Banana". Trying to get her to say it to me has resulted in nothing remotely sounding like these two words.
Some really good news is that my upper cabinets in my kitchen were hung over the weekend and it is starting to really look like a kitchen. Doors are on back order. Photos to be uploaded over the weekend.
Well this morning I woke up thinking it was 6:40am only to get dressed and come downstairs to make coffee and the actual time is 5:45am. Ooops! I forgot to change the clock radio across my room and that is what I looked at when I first woke. Hence my blog entry : )
Friday, November 5, 2010
October 31st
We had a carve off and yes that pumpkin was way out of the reach of children. That pumpkin was Eriks.
Friday, October 29, 2010
First Steps
Lily has been standing up on her own for about 2 months now. Only two weeks ago she took one small step forward at daycare on her first day. Since then I have been pretty low key on her walking to Mama. Well tonight after dinner, when we were both so tired, Lily decided to walk.
I am just so proud of her determination. I am also finding out that Lily does things on her own time.
Take a look:
Monday, October 25, 2010
A Few Firsts in Lily's Life
Lily seems to be enjoying daycare and has transitioned well for the first week. She does cry at night when I put her to bed which she did not do before. Tonight I had to rock her to sleep when she just wouldn't soothe herself. It is a big transition for the both of us so a little extra cuddling is needed.
The first day of daycare Lily took one step towards me at the end of the day. I am so worried I am going to miss this so I will leave my video camera there everyday and hope it will be captured. All the other kids are walking and I can see Lily wants to be up with the kids. She is doing a lot of standing but is not too eager to take steps.
At the end of last week we went on a big road trip to Sudbury to see her Vietnamese "brother" and to help celebrate his birthday and his Baptismal. It was a jam packed weekend with a Hallow e'en party with the Asian adoption community in the afternoon. Lily was dressed as a Fairy Mouse and I went as Jeanie. A blondie I am not!!
Following that party we joined a family who travelled to Vietnam with us (Cedric's mom and dad) to celebrate a birthday party for Cedric with the inclusion of Lily. It was just adorable and we had so much fun with lots of their family members attending.
Of course we can't help ourselves to gush over both of these babies and match these two in a marriage when they are older. If not marriage then wishing them a life long friendship of course. Below is a picture of the delicious cake that was made. All through our trip and when we arrived back in Canada these two got the names Pebbles and Bamm Bamm for obvious reasons.
Sunday, October 17, 2010
Daycare and Back to Work
Saturday, October 2, 2010
Bed with a Belly full of Cake
Happy 1st Birthday Lily
How blessed am I to be able to celebrate this milestone with her. We stayed close to home with visits to the park, walks with Char and then at the end of the day a trip to High Park to see all the dogs. Her friends Sam and Jack came by for a visit to sing "Happy Birthday" and while she was sleeping Juni and I made a fabulous birthday cake that is so yummy. A white cake with a chocolate butter frosting that melts in your mouth. We will eat that today at her party.
Lily and I have had more than half of her life together. It was on March 29th that I first looked into her beautiful eyes and new just how precious she was. A perfect match was made that day.
Meeting Lily that day has been the most important event of my life and I am forever grateful that my sister Michele travelled with us and was apart of that very special time.
Lily, I am wishing you a life of happiness, the best health, special moments with good friends and family and in between all of this some exciting adventures.
Forever in love with you!
Monday, September 20, 2010
Sunshine
Crazy Mother Alert
Thursday, August 26, 2010
August at the Cottage
Well, I have found a way to get the Internet in a way that makes us all happy. Erik left his MAC up here for me to use this week and I was able to get the the password to the island library's WIFI. This morning just before Lily's nap time I packed the car with her bag, all technology devices and snacks. We drove into the village and I was able to park right in front of the library, stay in the car to do all my emails while Lily had her morning nap. It all worked like a charm...until she woke up and I was not yet back at home. I had to pull over to comfort her which meant taking her out of her car seat and giving her mum mums for the rest of the drive home. All in all it was a success!
Wednesday, August 18, 2010
The Balancing Act
It all started when we left Auntie ME's house and went back to the cottage last Thursday. At Auntie's house, Lily started to eat and eat and eat. Her sittings at the table would last about 45min. Maybe it is because my nephews are such healthy eaters and she took the liberty to follow suit. By the time we got back to the cottage she continued eating everything in sight. It must have pushed her to the point of sleeping without the need of waking for a bottle.
We have had 5 nights of sleeping through from approx. 7:30pm to 8:00am. I am just so happy to have 8 hours of my own uninterrupted sleep. Although, I did find myself waking up at the 2:30am feeding time and making sure Lily was still breathing. This whole sleep begets sleep musts be true as no sooner is Lily awake from her night's sleep she wants to go down for her morning nap. We have about an hour of play time after breakfast before she starts rubbing the ears and grizzling to me.
So....back in Toronto as you can see I do not have big windows of opportunity to do a lot of errands. If I take her off her schedule then I pay for it usually the next day. Today, as soon as she wakes up this morning (which is imminent) we are going to run to renew my car sticker, do some grocery shopping and then head back home in time for lunch and then a two hour nap.
She must be on a growing spurt....I summize.
We will then get organized to drive across town to visit a friend who has kindly taken Charlotte off my hands while in Toronto (I am in a house with a few cats). Drop Char off at another house for a night and then head back home in time for bath and bed. Somewhere in between we will need to eat dinner.
In between I am just a regular mom cooking, cleaning, washing clothes, watering plants, and trying to find time to shave my legs : )
Tuesday, August 10, 2010
Fresh Country Air
It is so beautiful here especially first thing in the morning and the corn fields are huge for this time of year. Oh, and Charlotte came with us and has been barking at the stalks ever since.
We have been having such a fun summer but it has been nice to get off the island to see some different sites.
Lily is coming up to 10.5 months and just crawling up a storm. She loves to crawl to the dog dish when Char is eating and on occasion has taken a sample kibble out of the bowl. I guess there are worse things she could eat. Also, Lily is crab walking intermittently between crawling. It is especially funny when she does this at the beach in the sand. A little sand crab is what she is. She is not cruising yet but will stand up on anything in reach. She has not quite worked out the mechanics yet.
She is eating up a storm and some days I feel like I have two Labrador dogs. Both Char and Lily seem to beg for food when they see me eat. Lily loves the following foods:
- watermelon
- peaches
- blueberries
- canteloupe
- strawberries
- cheese
- any white bread but especially challah
- Cheerios
- cucumber
- her mum mums and saltine crackers (without the salt)
We are looking forward to a weekend with a couple other families who travelled with us to Vietnam. I can't wait for all the babies to be together. The memories of Vietnam are so precious to me and I feel like we are all family now.
Pictures to come next week when I will be able to download or sooner if I figure it out here.
Tuesday, July 20, 2010
Lazy, hazy days of Summer.
Still living the simple life at the cottage. We have had Auntie and Oma up for the past couple weeks to dote on Lily (and give Lily's Mama a much needed break).
We have more teeth coming in so Lily gets very grizzly feeling the pain the poor thing. She has n fear and will crawl across the sand to get to the water quickly. She will put sticks, bugs, sand, rocks and anything else that is in her path, in her mouth. I am glued to her to monitor all the stuff and get it away as fast as I can. It is a large beach so we are all on the watch.
Back home next week for a few days. Shots for Lily and shots for Charlotte. As my kitchen is once again torn apart right to the studs, I will be living at Auntie's house for the few days.
No bats lately but the mozzies love Lily and she sports a handful of bites no matter what I do to protect her. Please send any home remedies you might have.
Well must run. More next week.